Question 1 of 30
Your partner has an unusually busy week and you will barely speak for four days. Nothing is wrong between you. What would you want from them during that time?
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Relationship Test
A scenario-based relationship profile that measures how you bond, trust, communicate and repair, then manually maps those tendencies into the kind of partner profile likely to fit you best.
Answer with what you would genuinely want, feel or do. There is no ideal relationship style hidden in the questions. Your answers first build your relationship profile, then a separate compatibility layer maps that profile to the traits likely to suit you in a partner.
All 30 questions contribute to the profile. The same answers are also scored against the hidden personality model in the background.
Question 2 of 30
You and a long-term partner are both free for an entire weekend, but they suggest spending most of Saturday doing their own thing. What is your reaction?
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Question 3 of 30
Imagine a relationship is going well. In an ordinary week, how much contact and shared time would make it feel properly connected to you?
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Question 4 of 30
Your partner is affectionate as usual but seems distracted for a day and gives shorter replies. They say they are just tired. What happens in your mind?
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Question 5 of 30
Your partner goes to an event where they know many people and you know nobody there. They are sociable and spend much of the evening talking to others. What would you need from them for the evening to feel comfortable?
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Question 6 of 30
A partner tells you they love you and are committed to you, but they are not naturally very verbally reassuring day to day. How important would regular verbal reassurance be to you anyway?
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Question 7 of 30
You have had a difficult day and feel unusually vulnerable, but your partner has not noticed. What are you most likely to do?
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Question 8 of 30
You realise something your partner said touched an insecurity you rarely talk about. They did not mean to hurt you. How would you handle it?
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Question 9 of 30
In a close relationship, how much do you want a partner to know about fears, insecurities, private hopes and things you are embarrassed by?
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Question 10 of 30
A relationship has been good for two years. An exciting opportunity appears in another country and taking it would put the relationship under real strain. What role does preserving the relationship play in your decision?
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Question 11 of 30
When a relationship is going well, how far ahead do you naturally think about it?
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Question 12 of 30
Your partner goes through a prolonged difficult period and is less fun, energetic and easy to be with than before, but they still treat you well. What matters in deciding whether you stay?
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Question 13 of 30
Your partner makes a comment that bothers you, but you are not sure whether it was intentional. What are you most likely to do?
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Question 14 of 30
You notice the same small relationship problem happening for the third time. It is not serious, but it is starting to irritate you. How do you handle it?
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Question 15 of 30
During an argument, your partner says they need several hours before continuing the conversation. What would feel most natural to you?
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Question 16 of 30
Your partner has a hobby you do not share and wants to spend one evening every week doing it without you. How does that fit with your ideal relationship?
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Question 17 of 30
A partner wants to take a short trip with friends without you. The relationship is stable and there is no trust concern. What is your reaction?
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Question 18 of 30
How important is it that you keep parts of your life that are clearly yours rather than shared with a partner?
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Question 19 of 30
Your partner gets a friendly message from an ex they have not spoken to in years and tells you about it. There is no other concerning behaviour. What do you make of it?
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Question 20 of 30
Your partner comes home much later than expected because their phone died and transport went wrong. The explanation is plausible but cannot really be verified. How readily do you accept it?
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Question 21 of 30
In a healthy relationship, what level of privacy around phones, messages and personal conversations feels right to you?
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Question 22 of 30
After an argument is technically over, you can tell there is still some emotional distance between you. What do you usually want to happen next?
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Question 23 of 30
You realise you were partly unfair during a disagreement, but your partner has stopped mentioning it and seems to have moved on. What would you do?
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Question 24 of 30
Your partner apologises sincerely after hurting you and changes the behaviour. What helps you feel that the issue is actually repaired?
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Question 25 of 30
You and your partner have a comfortable weekend routine that has worked for months. How do you feel about keeping it largely the same?
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Question 26 of 30
For a holiday together, which kind of plan would naturally appeal to you most, and why?
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Question 27 of 30
Your relationship is stable and happy but has become very predictable. Nothing is actually wrong. How much would the predictability itself bother you?
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Question 28 of 30
When you are very happy with a partner, how strongly do you tend to show or experience that feeling?
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Question 29 of 30
During a serious disagreement with someone you love, what tends to happen to your emotional state?
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Question 30 of 30
What does an ideal loving relationship feel like emotionally from day to day?
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